This web page is here to support anyone who has toxic, invalidating and controlling people in their lives. The first most powerfully empowering phrase is where we will start, “Just being me.” It can be used whenever a justifier ask their inevitable “why,” “when,” “where,” “what were you thinking,” etc. questions as they try to trap you into their unwinnable game of justifying yourself. Try it and watch the peace come.

Blessings

“Answer not a fool according to his folly, lest you be like him yourself. Answer a fool according to his folly, lest he be wise in his own eyes.” Proverbs 26:4-5